Guide to Vow Renewal Ceremony: Tips & Samples

A vow renewal ceremony is a special moment that every married couple in love can share. Renewing your wedding vows is an opportunity to reaffirm your commitment to each other. 

Celebrate the longevity of your marriage and renew ideas you had the first time around. Revive all the excitement of your first wedding ceremony! This article will give you a full guide on wedding vows and how to write your own.  

Why Do Couples Renew Their Vows?

A vow renewal ceremony can be as beautiful as your wedding day was, or even better! So in case you’re wondering why do people renew their wedding vows, we can give you plenty of reasons.

Some think of renewing their vows because they probably didn’t enjoy their wedding day as they would’ve liked. The couple probably just had a civil wedding, a small reception, or maybe they just eloped.

For other couples, the reason could be that they held their wedding ceremony at a religious site, like a church. As it’s popularly known, most sacred venues are usually restrictive to any unorthodox arrangements. The couple might want to celebrate their joyous occasion and renew vows in a more relaxed setting. Maybe now they want to have a more fun experience.

Perhaps, both spouses have gone through tough times, and they now want to reignite the love flames. Maybe one partner fell ill and is now fully recovered, or has been away for work and is now back. Whatever the case, wedding vow renewal ceremonies are great occasions to celebrate love. These vow renewal examples will remind each other why you’re together in the first place. 

How to Renew Your Wedding Vows

1. Where will it be?

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So you’re excited to exchange marriage renewal vows. Now you need to decide where to hold the vow renewal ceremony.

The good news is that there are plenty of romantic places to renew wedding vows. It could be at your local church, at home, on a beach, an angelic garden, or even on a cruise. It could also be at the mountaintop of the first hiking trip you took together.

2. Who Should Be Invited?

The next thing to figure out is who you should invite. If it’s an intimate occasion, then your guests should be close family and friends.

However, if you want to hold a massive vow renewal party, it’s best to invite everyone you know and love. The latter situation provides the perfect opportunity to have your colleagues and new friends join you.

3. What will you write on invitation?

Once you’ve picked a date, ensure that your invitation cards have detailed instructions. For instance, you could be hosting a theme party or an evening affair restricted to adults only. Your friends and family need to understand your requests for either of these situations so they can come prepared. Regardless, your guests must be well-informed in advance about your vow renewal party ideas.

Example: “The honor of your presence is requested at the reaffirmation [or renewal] of the wedding vows of Mr. and Mrs. Jonathan Smith [or Susan and Jonathan Smith].

If the invitation is issued by the children of the couple:

“The children of Mr. and Mrs. Jonathan Smith [or Susan and Jonathan Smith] request the honor of your presence at the reaffirmation ceremony of their parents.”

4. Who Officiates?

Another exciting factor is that you can pick anyone to officiate your vow renewal ceremony. You can choose your best friend, mentor, favorite uncle, or even one of your kids! Isn’t that incredible?

5. What Should You Wear?

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You can also pick whatever outfit you want – a typical wedding dress, a jumpsuit, a tuxedo suit; you name it! You can even choose to wear matching costumes that further highlight your theme.

6. What Actually Happens During the Ceremony?

As for the actual ceremony, you can get as creative. Write your own vows or use lyrics to your partner’s favorite love song. The sky’s the limit! After reaffirming your commitment, you can exchange bands. Choose between your original ones or commemorative vow renewal rings with engravings. After you’ve sealed your union with a kiss, your loved ones can give speeches as in a typical wedding ceremony. 

Tips for vow renewal ceremony

1. Don’t Register

If you’ve been wondering whether you should have a gift registry and a bridal shower, the answer is no. Why? Because weddings are generally expensive. Asking your guests to refrain from buying any wedding renewal gifts is very considerate.

However, should they insist on buying you presents, here’s a sensible solution. You can always encourage your friends and family members to make a donation to the charity you support.

2. Do walk the aisle

Just because it’s not your actual wedding ceremony, it doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t walk down the aisle. Get creative. Build one for this special occasion, even if your event is at an odd venue.

Are you also thinking about the bridal party? It’s not necessary for your recommitment ceremony. Instead, you can have your kids walk you down the aisle. It will be even more touching.

3. Do have a floral bouquet

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That said, don’t forget to carry your beautiful bouquet. This is especially important if you didn’t get a chance to do so during your civil wedding ceremony.

The occasion doesn’t need to be an expensive affair like having a flower wall or an ornate aisle decor. A simple flower arrangement can still speak volumes about your love and romance. 

4. Do have reception

Another crucial aspect of a vow renewal ceremony is the reception. Whether you’re throwing an intimate dinner or a fun cocktail party, the key ingredient is to have fun!

Get creative and share a slideshow of memorable adventures you’ve experienced as a couple throughout your marriage. These pictures can include honeymoon moments, the birth of your children, and even their birthday celebrations. Don’t forget about the vow renewal cake! 

Sample Renewal Vows

The vows exchange is the most beautiful moment in any wedding ceremony. It’s the time when you reminisce about all the magical moments you’ve shared and the hurdles you’ve overcome. Below are some excellent vow renewal ideas: 

After an Illness

Six years ago, I promised to love you for as long as we both should live. I never imagined that I would face the possibility of losing you so soon, or the depths of despair I would feel at that prospect. Today, we are on the other side of the mountain, and I am so ecstatic that I get to continue life’s journey by your side. Once again, I promise to love you, honor you and keep you, for better or worse, in sickness and in health, for as long as we both shall live.

After a Stressful Time

Example 1: On our wedding day, I pledged to love you in sickness and in health, and for better or worse. The past year has tested those vows, but our enduring love for one another has prevailed. I come here today to make a fresh start, to renew our vows of love, honor, and fidelity, and to reaffirm my love for you.

Example 2: On our wedding day, I pledged many things to you, including my faithfulness. With great sorrow and regret, I acknowledge that I broke that vow but I realize now the enormity of my mistake. Others come and go, but you are the constant in my life whom I will always love. I believe in this marriage more than ever, and I reaffirm my love and commitment to you.

After a Private or Small Wedding

Example 1: With great joy, I pledged my love and commitment to you on our wedding day. But a loving relationship does not exist in a vacuum. Our family and friends first showed us how to love, helped us grow, and supported us when we found each other. I hope they will continue to love and support us as we love and support them. Therefore, I am delighted today, in the presence of these witnesses, to reaffirm my commitment to you, and once again, to promise to love you, honor you, and comfort you, in sickness and in health, for richer, for poorer, for better and for worse, as long as we both shall live.

Example 2: “For much of my life, I dreamed about my wedding day. I thought about the person that would be standing beside me and what things would be like after that magical day had come and gone. I wondered if there was such a thing as a perfect, lasting union. Now, __ year(s) later, I know that we have a healthy and loving marriage. True love like this is rare and difficult to find, but I know that I have found it in you. In the time that we have been married, my life has changed because of you.”

For an Anniversary

Example 1: (Spouse’s name), 25 years ago, I pledged my love and commitment to you, but it seems like only yesterday. I promised to love you, honor you, comfort and keep you. I pledged to be by your side in sickness and in health, in times of want, and times of plenty, for better or worse, for the rest of our lives. We have had all of those things, and you have been by my side as we created a family, a home, and a life together. Today, at the beginning of our 26th year as husband and wife, in the presence of God, and our family and friends, I renew my vows to you, pledging my eternal love for you, and eagerly awaiting what life may bring us.

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Example 2: “__ year(s) ago, I took you as my husband/wife – knowing in my heart that you would be my faithful companion, my lifelong partner, and my one true love. As we stand before our loved ones [and God], I pledge to stay by your side as your wife/husband/partner, in sickness, in health, in joy and sorrow, through the good times and the bad. I vow, once more, to love you without reservation, to honor and respect you. I will continue to support you, protect you from harm and to comfort you in times of distress.”

 Example 3: ““I love you more than words can say. I know you can feel it every day! And the best thing about it is that I feel all your love in return each and every day. Twenty-five years ago, we started our forever story…thank you for choosing me to write it with.”

Example 4: “There are three words that are stronger than I love you. Twenty-five years ago, I stood in front of you to say ‘I choose you.’ Today, I stand in front of you to remind you that each and every day I choose you over all others. I choose you to share happiness with. I choose you to care for. I choose you to have a family with. I choose you to grow with. I choose you to love forever.”

Conclusion

Holding a vow renewal ceremony is one of the best things you can do for your marriage. It will reignite the passion and reaffirm all the love you felt the first time you walked down the aisle. Commemorate your commitment to each other with these short and sweet renewal vows.